The Hidden Truth About Why Smart, Successful People Stay Single

For 27 years, I've worked with thousands of conscious, accomplished individuals who, despite their success in other areas, can't seem to create the loving partnership they deeply desire.

What I've discovered is that the very qualities that make you successful in your career and personal development might be the exact things blocking you from love.

Here's why:

The "Readiness" Trap

You've been taught that love is something you earn through self-improvement. That if you just heal enough, grow enough, or become enough, you'll finally be "ready" for the right relationship.

But this creates a painful paradox: the more you prepare for love, the further away it gets.

Why? Because "getting ready" has become your unconscious strategy for avoiding the vulnerability of real connection.

Each workshop, each book, each healing session becomes another way to tell yourself: "Not yet. I'm not quite ready yet."

The Achievement Approach

You've applied your achievement mindset to finding love. Set goals, follow the steps, put in the work, and success will follow – just like in your career.

But relationships don't respond to the same strategies that built your professional success. In fact, this approach often creates:

• Overthinking every interaction instead of being present

• Treating dating like job interviews rather than authentic connection

• Hiding your real self behind a "perfect" image

• Unconsciously pushing away people who might actually see and love you as you are

What's Really Blocking Your Path To Love

Most painfully, your nervous system has learned to protect you from the very thing you want most.

Those disappointing relationships and rejections from your past haven't just created emotional wounds – they've programmed your body to equate vulnerability with danger.

So you create invisible barriers:

• Subtle unavailability signals you don't even realize you're sending

• Attraction to partners who can't fully show up

• Impossibly high standards no human could meet

• "Walls up" energy that keeps potential partners at a safe distance

The result?

A painful cycle where you deeply desire connection while simultaneously blocking it.

Why Traditional Dating Advice Fails Conscious Singles Like You

The typical dating advice you've encountered likely falls into two problematic categories:

Surface-level tactics that feel manipulative and inauthentic to someone of your depth and awareness

Manifestation approaches that suggest you just need to "vibrate higher" or create better vision boards while ignoring the real psychological and energetic blocks

Both miss what's really keeping love away: the disconnect between your conscious desire for partnership and your unconscious patterns of protection.

A Different Approach: From Endless Preparation to Authentic Connection

What if finding love isn't about becoming more perfect, but about becoming more real?

What if your readiness for love isn't measured by how healed you are, but by your willingness to be seen exactly as you are right now?

After 27 years helping thousands of conscious singles move beyond their blocks to find deep, authentic partnership, I've discovered it comes down to one fundamental shift:

Moving from protection to presence.

When you stop hiding behind preparation and perfectionism, and start showing up authentically in your dating life, everything changes.

Your energy shifts. Your choices shift. And most importantly, who you attract shifts.

That's why I've created a completely different kind of program for conscious singles who are tired of waiting to be "ready enough" for love.

Introducing: A New Path To Partnership

Most dating programs teach you how to play games, manipulate attraction, or manifest your soulmate through vision boards and affirmations.

You've had enough of surface-level dating tips and manifesting tricks. You want something real. That's exactly why Amanda and I created a new program to address that.

After 27 years of helping people find lasting partnership, I've witnessed something remarkable:

The moment someone stops trying to decode the "rules" of dating and starts sharing themselves authentically, just as they are…

…their energy shifts. Their choices shift. And most importantly, who they attract shifts.

That's why Calling in Conscious Partnership is different. We create a space where you can:

• Finally release the exhausting pressure to be "perfect enough" for love
  

• Trust your natural instincts instead of overthinking every interaction
  

• Show up as authentically you in every dating situation
  

• Attract partners who match your depth and consciousness

When you're truly available for partnership (not just wishing for it), love has room to enter. Your whole world opens up in ways you might not expect.

Meet Your Guides On This Journey

Before I tell you about the program itself, let me share why Amanda and I are uniquely qualified to support you.

This program brings together two unique perspectives on conscious partnership - my 27 years of coaching experience combined with Amanda's profound journey from self-abandonment to self-trust.

You're getting access to the same proven tools I share with my private coaching client. And you'll experience Amanda's rare gift for creating sacred, safe spaces where you’re able to open up and let the real you be seen.

In case our stories are new to you, here’s a quick bio for each of us:

Introducing: Calling In Conscious Partnership

A 6-week live experience for people who are ready to move beyond surface-level dating and into real, lasting connection.

Each week, we work on the key changes that help you become truly open to love and naturally attractive to the right partner. Together, we'll uncover what's really keeping love away, and help you create deep, real connections.

Here’s what you’ll discover along the way:

• How to move from endless thinking into aligned action
  

• The subtle ways your nervous system might be blocking love
  

• What true emotional availability looks and feels like
  

• How to trust your instincts while staying open to connection
  

• The key differences between protection and presence

And most importantly, you'll be supported in a warm, caring space where nobody will rush you, judge you, or push you to do anything that doesn't feel right.

Because after nearly three decades of this work, I've witnessed the profound shifts that happen when we create space for real transformation.

Jason's Story

For 27 years, I've been at the forefront of conscious relationship coaching.

I've led over a thousand workshops and helped countless people move from disconnection into authentic partnership.

Some of today's most recognized names in relationship coaching were once my private clients.

But despite all that experience, I lived with a painful secret:

I couldn't create the deep connection I helped others find.

I chased unavailable people. Rejected the safe ones. Stayed emotionally distant while trying to earn love through endless self-improvement. For years, I believed partnership was a reward for being more healed, more successful, more "together."

Then everything changed.

I stopped focusing on dating and started focusing on my spirituality. Not religion, but my own connection to the Divine.

That is what allowed me to stop relating from my wounds and start relating from my authentic truth. The moment I accepted myself fully - including the ways I was still a mess - real love found me.

That's how Amanda and I connected. She wandered into a spiritual gathering I was leading. We quickly became friends, and then 9 months later we realized we wanted to be together.

Amanda's Story

For a long time, I didn’t know what real love felt like. I knew fantasy. I knew rescue stories. I knew self-sacrifice and smiling through heartbreak. But real, grounded, nourishing love? That took a lot of unlearning.

I grew up in the Bible Belt in Alabama, where I was taught that leaving a marriage—no matter how painful—was a sin. That belief kept me trapped in an abusive relationship that drained me and my 4 children for years.

Add to that the deep, complicated grief of being adopted, and you get a woman who spent much of her life questioning her worth and waiting to be chosen.

When I finally broke free from my relationship, I knew I had some healing work to do. I dove in head first. Therapy. 12-step work. Books. Women’s circles. Spiritual study. Nervous system work.

I made a vow to become the kind of woman who could love myself so I wouldn’t keep looking for it in the eyes of unavailable men.

Today, I’m in a conscious partnership with Jason, and it’s given me a kind of love I’ve never had - consistent, stable, and healthy.

I’ve started leading goddess circles for women in Massachusetts, and I hold space for women who are done abandoning themselves and ready to come home.

In this program, I’ll be your companion. I’ll support you during group exercises, help you connect with others, and make sure there’s space for your heart, your voice, and your experience.

I’m here because I know what it’s like to feel like love is always just out of reach—and I also know what it takes to bring it closer.

Your Transformational Journey: Week By Week

Week 1: Break Free From Fantasy - We explore what's really keeping you in the "waiting room" of love, and help you reclaim your power to actively choose partnership rather than waiting to be chosen.

Week 2: Create Space for Love - Love needs space to land. Together, we'll clear the mental, emotional, and real-world blocks that might be keeping connection from entering your life.

Week 3: Build Unshakeable Self-Worth - Discover how to trust your body's natural wisdom in relationships. Learn to honor your authentic yes and no, creating true emotional safety and natural magnetism.

Week 4: Design Your Love-Ready Life - Take an honest look at how your current life supports (or doesn't support) the kind of love you want. We'll identify where simple changes can create natural openings for partnership.

Week 5: Map Your Partnership Vision - Move beyond fantasy lists to create a grounded, values-based vision for how you want to feel, relate, and grow in love. This becomes your practical north star.

Week 6: Step Into Your Readiness - Step into your readiness with power and presence. The group will see and celebrate you as someone who's truly ready for love.

When you complete these six weeks, you'll have everything you need to step into dating with genuine confidence:

• Clear understanding of what's been holding you back

• Practical tools to navigate new connections

• Deep trust in your ability to choose well

• A supportive community who sees and celebrates you

And most importantly - the ability to show up as yourself, not some "perfect" version you think you need to be

And you’ll gain all this in an intimate group setting, connecting with other open-hearted singles.

How To Know If This Is Right For You

I would never insult your intelligence by claiming that we're the right teachers for every single person out there. We're not actually trying to reach "everybody".

We're specifically looking to help conscious singles who know they need a new approach if they're going to attract a conscious partner.

This Program Is For You If...

• You're emotionally self-aware and have already done significant personal growth work

• You're tired of relationships that start strong but fizzle, or never quite get off the ground

• You find yourself attracted to unavailable people or situations that reflect your own ambivalence

• You've caught yourself saying you want partnership while simultaneously putting it off

• You're over the superficial dating advice that doesn't honor your depth, intelligence, or values

• You're ready for a relationship that's conscious, connected, and real—even if that feels vulnerable

• You sense that something in your own energy or patterns might be blocking what you truly want

This Program Is NOT For You If...

• You're looking for manipulative dating tactics or "game" strategies

• You're not willing to look at your own patterns and blind spots

• You're still actively healing from very recent heartbreak or trauma

• You believe someone else should "complete" or "save" you

• You're not willing to be a little uncomfortable in service of your growth

• You expect a "perfect" partner to arrive without you changing anything about how you show up

The Time To Stop Waiting Is Now

Think about it:

• How many times have you said "I'll start dating after..." only to move the goalpost once you reached that milestone?

• How many potential connections have you missed while waiting to become "perfect enough" for love?

• How many more holidays do you want to attend alone, fielding those well-intentioned but painful questions about your love life?

• How much longer are you willing to ignore that 3AM feeling – that deep knowing that something is missing despite all your achievements?

At some point, we have to ask ourselves: what if the endless preparation is actually just another form of hiding?

What if you're already enough, exactly as you are right now?

What if the key to finding love isn't becoming more "ready", but becoming more real?

Your Investment In Love

Normally, to access this level of guidance requires significant investment. My private coaching starts at $3,000 for a 90-day minimum commitment.

And until now, Amanda has only offered her transformational work to women in the Boston area. She's excited to bring her gifts to this unique container we're co-creating.

But we wanted to make this accessible to more people. Because everyone deserves to experience love without waiting for "someday" to arrive.

That's why we've distilled the most powerful elements of our work into this intimate group experience.

Two Paths To Choose From

Path #1 - The Core Program

Everything you need to break free from waiting and step into love, including:

• Six weeks of live group training and support
  

• Practical tools for daily integration
  

• A warm, intimate group container

Plus, You'll Receive These Powerful Bonuses:

1. Conscious Dating Profile Makeover Kit ($197 Value)
Write a dating profile that captures your depth and authenticity without overthinking every word. These proven prompts and templates help you attract conscious partners while staying true to yourself.

2. The Green & Red Flag Decoder ($97 Value) - Stop second-guessing your instincts. This practical guide helps you spot both warning signs and promising signals early - including subtle green flags most people miss. Trust your gut and avoid wasting time on misaligned connections.

3. Love at Any Age Guide ($97 Value) - Discover where conscious, available partners in your age range actually gather (especially if you're over 40). Skip the oversaturated dating scenes and find authentic connections in unexpected places.

Total Value $688

Your Investment: Just $297

That's less than the cost of a single private coaching session, yet gives you everything needed to become visible, magnetic, and truly available for love now - not "someday."

Path #2 - The VIP Experience

For those ready to fast-track their transformation. Includes everything in the core program plus:

• A Live 2-Hour VIP Integration Workshop ($197 Value)
  In this workshop, we'll help you personalize everything you've learned and make it part of who you are, so your openness and newfound attractiveness stay with you.

• Personalized Feedback On Your Dating Profile ($197 Value)
  Jason will bring his 27 years of online dating expertise and help make sure your profile is worded in a way that will attract a conscious partner instead of blending in with all the other boring profiles. This will be delivered via a screen capture video.

• A Customized 30-day Dating Action Plan For You ($147 Value)
  We'll create a plan based on your specific patterns, lifestyle, and the kind of partner you want to attract (including age-appropriate strategies for meeting quality matches).

Total Value $1,229

Your Investment: Just $497

(This Is BY FAR The Better Deal)

Because you’re one of the founding students of this program, I have one additional bonus for you that will not be available when I release this down the road.

You’re going to receive LIFETIME ACCESS to all future basic cohorts of this program.

Think about that - if you're ever single again in the future, or simply want a relationship tune-up, you can retake the entire basic program live, with all future upgrades and new resources, at no additional cost.

Even when the program eventually reaches its full price of $997, you'll always have a seat waiting for you.

That also means you’ll have access to any new resources that are created for future students. It’s all included in this one time investment.

Speaking of which, your VIP investment breaks down to just $1.36 per day for a year. What else do you spend $1.36 on every single day that makes no difference in your ability to attract conscious, healthy love?

Plus, As A VIP Student, You Get This HUGE Bonus!

Program Details

Live Workshop Schedule

We meet for 6 consecutive Tuesdays via Zoom. The dates are:

• May 20, 27

• June 3, 10, 17, 24

Each session runs from 6:30-8:00pm EST (except our final celebration). For our last gathering on June 24th, please set aside 2 hours (6:30-8:30pm EST). We'll use this extended time to:

• Celebrate your transformation
  

• Complete powerful group processes
  

• Ensure you feel confident stepping into dating

Peer Support Groups

Between our weekly workshops, you'll meet with a small group of fellow participants to:

• Practice what you're learning
  

• Share experiences
  

• Deepen your insights
  

• Your group will choose a meeting time that works for everyone.

Recordings & Materials

• All sessions are recorded
  

• Access recordings for a full year
  

• Watch and rewatch as often as you like
  

• Bonus materials delivered throughout the program

The Time For Waiting Is Over

Now, I know you might be thinking…

• "Maybe I should wait until I feel more ready..."
  

• "Maybe I need to heal a bit more first..."
  

• "Maybe after I lose those last 10 pounds..."

But let me ask you something:

How long have you been telling yourself these same stories?

How many potential connections have slipped by while you were waiting to become "perfect enough" for love?

No More Waiting To Be Chosen - It's Time To Choose Yourself!

The truth is, there will never be a "perfect" time to do this work. There will always be another workshop to take, another book to read, another layer to heal.

But at some point, you have to ask yourself...

How much longer are you willing to wait? How many more holidays do you want to spend explaining why you're still single? How many more nights do you want to come home to an empty house?

The time for waiting, hiding, and over-preparing is over. It's time to become visible, available, and ready for the love you say you want.

Choose Your Path (Click One)

With love,

Jason & Amanda

P.S. Still on the fence? Consider this: Six months from now, you can be exactly where you are right now - still waiting to feel "ready enough" for love.

Or you can be showing up differently, relating differently, and attracting differently. The choice is yours.

We’d love to have you on board. Six months from now is going to show up anyway, right? How about we take steps together to make sure that time is much more magical and full of love?

Your Questions Answered

I've tried dating programs before without success. How is this different?
Most dating programs focus on tactics, strategies, and external behaviors. This program addresses the internal patterns, beliefs, and energetic availability that determine who you attract and how you show up. It's about transformation, not information.

I'm currently dating someone, but it's not quite what I want. Is this still appropriate?
Yes. You can use this program to get clarity about current relationships that don’t feel fully aligned. The work we do helps you discern whether your current situation has potential that's being blocked by your patterns, or whether it's truly not a match for your deeper desires.

What if I don't feel ready to date yet?
That's exactly why this program exists. Real readiness comes when you take that first brave step. We'll help you move past perfectionism and "someday" thinking into genuine connection.

I'm over 50. Will this work for me?
Absolutely. Many of our participants are in their 40s, 50s, 60's and beyond. Our "Love at Any Age Guide" shows you exactly where to find conscious, available partners in your age range - especially in places most people never think to look.

What if I can't attend all the live calls?
While we encourage live attendance for the most powerful experience, all sessions are recorded and available within 24 hours. You'll still benefit from the transformational container and the peer groups, even if you need to catch some sessions on replay.

Is this program only for heterosexual relationships?
No. This program is designed for anyone seeking conscious partnership, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. The principles of emotional availability, energetic visibility, and authentic presence apply to all forms of loving relationship.

What if I'm still healing from past relationship trauma?
This program complements healing work but doesn't replace it. If you're actively working with a therapist or healer on significant trauma, this program can serve as a powerful complement, helping you move from healing into active creation. However, if you're in acute emotional distress, it may be better to focus on stabilization first.